Tranquil Homes

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Homes That Had A (Distinct) Place And Effect During The Period Of Prophet (peace be upon him)

1. The Home of al-Arqam bin Al-Arqam (ra)
2. The Home of Abu Bakr Al-Siddiq (ra)
3. Home of Abu Ayyub al-Ansari, (ra)
4. Home of Abu Ayyub al-Ansari, (ra)
5. The Home of Anas bin Malik, (ra) 
6.  Home of Ramla bint Harith al-Ansariyah an-Najariyah and her husband Ma’az bin Harith bin Rufa’h, (ra)

Islam’s Early Devotion Towards Homes 

1. Selection of the spouses
2. Saying the prayer when entering and arriving home:
3. Supplication when copulating:
4. Choosing a spacious home and righteous neighbor 
5. Preserving the dignity of homes and the etiquette of seeking permission (to enter) 
6. Prohibition of things that stop angels from entering home:

Factors Affecting The (Process Of) Tarbiyyah (Nurturing) in Homes 

1. Sensing and bearing the responsibility of caring:
2. Dhikr (remembrance) of Allah (swt) in Homes:
3. Praying (Salah) inside homes and other Sunan (acts and sayings of the Prophet Peace be upon him):
4. Qur’an is (guidance), (light), (enlightenment), (remedy), and book of Allah, (its rope is flawless), (its way is straight), and (it is mercy for all worlds)
5. Awrad (Adhkar – remembrance of Allah) in Morning and Evening

Mechanisms and Tools for Tarbiyyah (Nurturing) in Homes

1. The Good Word
2. Family Assembly
3. Hosting the best people in homes
4. The Purposeful Visits
5. Entertaining and Beneficial Journeys
6. Home Library
7. Mobile Messages and Family Groups
8. Developing Skills for both Genders: 
9. Treating mistakes in homes 
10. Methods of Treating the Mistakes
11. Doing justice with Children

Things That Threaten Homes And The Duty Of Parents Towards It 114

1. The Parents’ Realization Of Their Responsibility Towards Tarbiyyah (Nurturing)
2. Access to Tools of Corruption And Not Controlling Them
3. Modern Means of Communication And Their Invasive Programs
4. Drugs And Intoxicants And Their Initial Forms
5. Intense Anger And Despicable Conduct
6. Frequent Absence From Homes And Living In Fictitious Homes
7. Drivers and Servants
8. Dispute Between Spouses And The Deviating (Behavior) Among Children
9. Fault in the Home Finances

The Benefits Of Tarbiyyah (Nurturing) In Homes

1. Fulfilling The Shari’ Duty
2. Preserving Family From Devastation
3. Raising Generations That Will Bring Benefit To The Society And Ummah
4. The Parents Benefit In Here And In Hereafter
5. Destructing and Breaking down the Projects of Westernization and Intellectual Invasion of the Thresholds of Tarbiyyah (Nurturing): 
6. Assisting In Inviting Kin And Relatives (Towards Good)